Family Dance

Brotherly Kindness

 Recently, Mark got a new bed, specially made to provide comfort and protection for people with disabilities and to be at a height convenient for transfers. It has a 12" high edge all around it, with the front being able to be let down from the outside. Now that there is room in Mark's bed, and perhaps because of the challenge of climbing into it, Austin and Preston can sometimes be found in bed with Mark, playing. This is how I found them one Saturday morning. Notice how Mark has his hand at Austin's face, enjoying the brotherly contact.

 How many people has an 11 year old, a 9 year old and a 5 year old who are all about the same height. I do, and here's proof.

 Mark's caregiver Indie is assisting Austin in giving Mark a piggy back ride.

When we stayed at a hotel in SLC over Christmas, Alyssa and Preston had to share a bed. This is how Rob found them when he woke up early in the morning.

Peas in a pod

I hate it when that happens

At the beginning of the Christmas holidays Rob brought out this 1000 piece puzzle that he had bought years ago at a clearance sale. Every year when we lived out of town and stayed at Granny and Grandpa's for Christmas they would bring out puzzles and various family members would put them together. It was super fun--to me an annual treat--forget the work for a while and do a puzzle.

This was the first big one we did at our house. At first everyone worked together as we got the perimeter pieced together. It soon became apparent, however, that this was a very difficult puzzle with hundreds of pieces looking almost identical--shades of grey and brown. Apart from some Christmas day help from Grandma Berry and one evening from Shari, (Mark's caregiver), this became my personal endeavor. For a month or so in December and January, I also suffered from quite bad insomnia. I spent many hours on days when I was too tired to do anything useful working on that puzzle. I'm sure I could have read War and Peace several times over in the time that puzzle took me. I finally finished it last weekend, only to find that one piece was missing. I hate it when that happens!

Robert Munsch, meet Austin Doig!

On Thursday, last week, the famous children's author, Robert Munsch, came to Raymond. A family there had won a story writing contest as part of a Canada-wide literacy campaign, and because of that, the family got to spend an evening with Robert Munsch and he came the next day to read stories for an audience at the school. I decided to take our boys (Alyssa had play practice). Mark listens to Robert Munsch stories on his iPad a lot. He loves the sound effects and his intonation. Robert Munsch frequently makes him laugh and laugh. Austinalso won the storytelling contest last year telling his story, "Mmm, Cookies. " While Robert Munsch is Canadian, I think his stories like "Love You Forever," "The Paper Bag Princess," etc, are pretty famous elsewhere as well.

Anyway, because we had Mark in a wheelchair, we were able to find seating on the front row to the side of the stage. Robert Munsch chose children from the audience to come up to the front. He changed the name of the child in the story to match the child he selected. As they were introducing him, etc, I thought I saw Robert Munsch looking over at us once or twice.

Sure enough on the first story he called for a child to be part of the story and then looked directly toward Austin and called him up. Preston followed right behind and he let him come. So, in this video, you can see that "Moira's Birthday" became "Austin's Birthday." Unfortunately for our family honor, apparently Preston was not very attentive and was even...I am ashamed to admit....picking his nose up front before about 1000 people!

After the show, I got a book autographed. I also gave Robert Munsch a letter I had written to him thanking him for the difference he made for Mark. Mark did really well through the whole thing which is pretty impressive since being in a gym with 1000 or more people is not his favorite pastime.

Happyland Graduation for Preston

Here it is in 9 video clips. If you think it's long, remember some of us had to sit through it! Anyway, all in all a very good graduation for Preston. Good work, Anna, on putting the event together!

Highlights of being at the Bryners

I really didn't take enough pictures while we were at Bryners to capture the whole feeling of being there, but we had a great, classic Prete time together. Top ten highlights include:

10. Allie and Olivia playing princess by dressing up in swim suits...and the post-play condition of the swim suits.....

Conversation between Haylee and Olivia:

H: Why are you two wearing swimsuits (slight disapproval in her voice)

O: We are playing princesses

H: But princesses wear beautiful dresses, not swim suits

O: But we are pretending the swim suits are beautiful dresses

H: I don't know how to argue with that.

9. Emma's birthday on the 29th. She turned 9.

8. Cousin bonding. It was cute to see Preston bond with Garrett and Pierce. In these pictures, preparing to sleep--three boys, 2 beds, everyone wanting to sleep with Preston. They were extremely silly and hard to get to sleep, and though we paid for it, later, I could hardly be mad because it was so cute. Paul, James, Sam and Austin formed another cousin group and did everything together. They especially loved playing "The mysterious Jungle Ascent" the game Brian created...oh, and of course, the Wii.


7. Watching basketball games. Christian and Rob talked lots of sports and watched a couple of games on TV including this one while dad walked on the treadmill...

6. Happy Land--There was one happy land event for the kids on Wednesday morning. Alyssa and Anna did the girls' hair and nails, and they played games with the kids. They also made lunch as Liz had gone to get Mom and dad. In the afternoon, Anna took four kids tobogganing. In addition to one happy land event for kids, there were four staff only functions--movie night, wii night, games night and a staff lunch.

5. Alyssa is momentarily and only slightly taller than Anna.
4. Happy Land Graduation--see separate post.

3. Games, games and more games. Beyond Balderdash was super funny...we laughed until it hurt. Mostly we made up descriptions for movie titles. There were some great definitions about "chorus girls in 1940s romps," "a middle aged woman and her cat on a dog sled adventure finding love in an unexpected place, " several "heartwarming stories", etc, etc. I also enjoyed learning to play Sleuth which is a challenging game using deductive reasoning. I hope to play it again til I can do it well--Haylee accomplished that on the first attempt.

2. Amazing hosting by the Bryner family and delicious meals planned and prepared by Liz. I want to thank the Bryners for sharing their home and their holidays with us. The kids reached out to their cousins and everyone felt welcome and had a good time. Christian helped Rob have fun, too.

1. Just being together. I love my family and was so happy to strengthen relationships with everyone. I also want to apologize if I said anything insensitive or harsh. I was a little sleep deprived on the trip and that sometimes affects my sensitivity level.